I am taking care of myself, but sometimes I feel like not to talk to anyone, just simply be in my company? Is it bad that I am loving this phase of staying alone manifesting and doing things of my own?
Hi Scarlett4 –
My friend, no one has ever been more social than your friend Shirelle. I love my human friends, my doggy friends, and strangers of all species. To me, waking in the morning is an invitation to excitement, my chance to meet, to interact, to jump on and lick everyone possible!
But that doesn’t mean that I don’t also love time alone. Sitting in the yard watching for squirrels, or just sleeping under a tree. Or, my greatest love, spending long afternoons and evenings with Handsome, watching him work or playing catch or taking walks or just lying nearby, loving feeling him close at hand.
Everyone needs both – time with others and time alone. And no two beings are exactly alike. Some people are called Extroverts, because most of their energy is about (and created by) others. While others are called Introverts, as they are usually happiest (and charged up by being) alone. There is nothing better or worse about either. Politicians and salespeople pretty much have to be extroverts, while authors and composers have to be introverts.
The only thing wrong with spending your time alone, my friend, is if you do it so much that you lose the ability to be comfortable with others. So do spend some time in the company of other people. But if you mostly like being alone, and are productive and happy when you are – no one has the right to tell you that’s wrong.
And this puppy sure won’t try!
All my best,