shayna634 asks: My first and second choices asked me out. I sit next to my #2 choice, so if I deny him he will hate me, and I have a big sister who is best friends with his big sister, so probably his whole family will hate me! Who do I pick?
Hi shayna634 –
Hmmmm… I’m wondering – do you actually have to pick between the two? Could you go out with both, at least once? Just as friends?
That might make it a bit easier. If your #1 choice is still your #1 choice after that, you won’t be in any worse shape than you are today, but you’ll have been nice and said yes to the #2 guy at least once; but if your opinion changes on those two dates, you could actually happily get more involved with #2.
Let me know if that’s possible. But I should add here – do you really think his older sister and their family would hate you if you dated another boy? If that’s the case, they sound a little scary to me!
Let me know!